Just to add a quick one. I also consider myself fairly well off compared with what is out there in the marriageable market. Furthermore I am not of those who feels the need to make polite excuses for not having any kids or why I am not setting up home yet.
While a large part of it has to do with compatibility and Money certainly, but another unspoken aspect which I believe is more important is chemistry. I doesn’t have to be flashy, but it must come off honest and authentic. For example if you take 10:39 pm http://aaron-ng.info/blog/how-to-avoid-being-convicted-of-sedition.html#comment-17864 anyone doing the samething would probably get brick bats. Here he comes across as such a lame liar, but he pulls through, why?
You see that is not so easy to answer. Why can some people get away with it all the time? While others only seem to get one bite at the cherry and no more?