Comment on This blog will die tomorrow by Sino Man Although when you get back to Singapore the overall level of excitement might be so high you resort to running a blog again? Comment on This blog will die tomorrow by Sino Man This is great news. I will miss the blogging but this is good thing for you. Comment on This blog will die tomorrow by sculptor Good luck with your art. Since artist web sites are the new portfolio you should probably consider one of those to replace this site. Please send me your URL if you do this… Best wishes, — Gary Comment on This blog will die tomorrow by Indiana Take care sweetie… Enjoy what’s left of your adventure, the direction will come while you are living your life. See you soon, I hope. xxx Comment on This blog will die tomorrow by E@L Random blow-jobs? Enjoy T-V. I got stuck in Cairo, missed my plane. It’s much more Bangkok than Mumbai. Art is amazing… XXX Comment on Untitled. by anonymous the whole lot of you just made me laugh. arguing over someone so unimportant. someone who goes to great lengths to make herself known as the “westernised nympho”. geeez. either you have it or you dont. its kinda sad to be trying hard all the time. you are a bunch of lifeless old farts with no life. Comment on Untitled. by Tony Lawless Manuel, You are giving Isabella more erotic ideas! Comment on Untitled. by Manuel You have some problems. You need to work them out BY YOURSELF. No one can help you but you, others can only make you feel better for a short time. Seek out people (friends only not fuck buddies) where you live that are hard on you. Friends who are honest enough to tell you that you are fucking up are 10 times more valuable than the ones who kiss your ass. Comment on Untitled. by Tony Lawless So — are you lying or telling the truth? Comment on Untitled. by Sino Man Tony I doubt that a 35 year old man (roughly my own age) dating a girl in her early 20s is really looking to love someone. If I was dating a girl that age I would just be out for some fun. Some people will always play around and others never will, many still will pass through a phase. For a girl in that stage of life the trick is working out what a guy is really after because the truth is most likely not what comes out of their mouth. Comment on Untitled. by Tony Lawless Freudian slip, Sino Man! Izzy, I hope you find someone you can really love and who is ready to love you! 35 years old or so? Unfortunately, most boys take a long time before they are ready to tear up their sexual license to fuck anyone they can. In the meantime, it would probably help if you could be more honest with your feelings: every time, you say “Fuck this shit!”, it strikes me you are really saying “Damn it! I care!” Comment on Untitled. by Sino Man Sorry I meant that I hope that you do NOT feel damaged for it later Comment on Untitled. by Sino Man Hmm, so the thought that a Singaporean thinks about something other than shopping, food, money, and being super conservative is going to die now? Izzy I suspect that you see now that many people come to a place like Singapore to live in a fantasy land you have been a part of that. Retrospectively knowing that you were just a bit of fun for someone is a smack in the face I suppose but a reality check is great and we all take something from these times. Your naked exposure of developing thoughts has been a spotlight on the modern conundrum, I hope you do do feel damaged for it later. I respect you for you enlightenment. Comment on Untitled. by mikidtaiwan Obviously you had to encounter a bit more complicated world of Middle Europe to come back to reflection…about yourself. And good, this is why changes of place have some sense, not by chance Freud worked in Vienna. Yes, I agree with followers of you blog above, most of these affairs should be “done”, but not blogged, probably. Anyway, it is YOUR blog and you did as you wished. I enjoy and follow sometimes, sometimes not, but would miss some entries by you, definitely. I love your direct, hot, sometimes painful ways. Best wishes, whatever you do. Comment on Untitled. by sculptor Blog about your art. Blog about things that interest you. Believe you me, I suspect that most everybody who reads your blog is also sick to death about the blog entries dealing with your afairs. If you share things that interest you, you’ll both enjoy them more and you’ll enjoy blogging again. Comment on Untitled. by erico Seconding the comment by ‘Ron in Houston’. I thought when you moved from the old ‘Miss Izzy’ blog to this new ‘Wyafer’ blog, your intention was to focus on your many talents — writing, drawing, painting, creating, etc — and the new blog would let us, your audience, share in that creative process and your experiences within. I certainly thought your intention was to lessen the sexuality-related exposure in your writing, and to build a well-rounded life. If you stop now — are we to think that without sex, you have nothing else meaningful to say ? I rather believe not. Comment on Untitled. by Ron in Houston There’s a lot you could blog about besides your personal life. I rather enjoyed the posts on things like atheism and science. Frankly it would be interesting to know what it’s like to be this ethnic Chinese Singaporean in Eastern Europe. Talk about Alice in Wonderland. I’ll miss ya if you stop blogging. Comment on Faced with Pure Alfiedom. by mikidtaiwan Good reasoning. Highest degree from logics. Btw, this shit behavior is quite often in christian morality in Europe. I mean “I fuck, wife shut up and stay home, wait for me”. Pity to see youngsters still exercise it. Petty Europe morality, I call it… Forget it, your way is healthier and more fair. Say hello to Greece for me, enjoy good kebap and souvlaki. Will be back there in 2 months :-). Comment on Not Jealous. by Tony Lawless “I wasn’t jealous or angry or anything.” Huh?! Then why did you do all the punching? Of course you were jealous! Of course you were angry! Comment on Not Jealous. by mkwe Hey izzy …delete that last comment for me (and this) if you would … I’m sitting in a lonesome hotel room in Da Shi Guangzhou giving advice to a teenager on the other side of the world? What the fuck would I know anyway.. Comment on Not Jealous. by Ron in Houston You sensed anger. The hitting of your bed was a sign of the anger that was there. I don’t know why you had anger. I can speculate, but it’s really up to you to figure out what triggered that anger. In a way you’re unfortunate in that situations come to you. Often you don’t want what comes your way. In many ways, I’m glad I’m not a female. Comment on Romantic attachments. by Chris it’s possible that someday you will look back upon all this, and see how nutty, and perhaps dangerous it all is, maybe it’s a necessary part of your journey….. but one thing about being on the edge is that…one slip… Take care Comment on Not Jealous. by mikidtaiwan Good one, indeed. Not wasting your time there. You posted somewhere some pics of Budapest by you, Izzy? I know the city, and am not interested in touristical pics of it, but in Izzy’s look on Budapest. Could be interesting, I feel. This is, in fact, one interesting observation I had when reading your post(s). Very globalised (whatewer it’d mean) world in them, no difference if it is Singapore, HongKong or Budapest. Sure, this is personal blog, not some f..ing Lonely Planet or Discovery Channel, and I am not complaining, just noticing. You did a drawing there, in one of previous posts, yes… and here you gave the notion about the triple door to hungarian apartment. Funny bits of the surrounding space. At the moment, Budapest is squeaking, screeching under your heels, what will remain of this ancient city? Comment on Romantic attachments. by MoFoBro Izzy… it sounds like for once you are really happy! You deserve it.. ENJOY!! We miss you here. Muackzzz! Comment on Romantic attachments. by yy So happy for you! Have fun girl! It’s nice to see both you and Sara calm down to some single guy happiness! Comment on Romantic attachments. by Ron in Houston I don’t think your past made you into a wierdo. It does give you a different perspective. Look on the bright side, it makes you appreciate what some would view as a “normal” or “boring” relationship. Comment on Romantic attachments. by Charles Frith Happy birthday if memory serves me correct Comment on Romantic attachments. by mikidtaiwan Mmm, like that avatar also. Parties back in Europe, yes, this I miss, good point, smthing to die for. Enjoy! Comment on Romantic attachments. by Sino Man Good form, some people do not care at all about the damage they do to self respect and without being patronising. It is probably easy to erode the well being of someone a lot younger than you. Dating older men can be a double edge sword. Comment on I Hate Chinese New Year. by mikidtaiwan positive, then. Izzy learns Europe. Small, petty Europe, but so addictive. My bow, she seems to learn fast, quieting herself so immediately. Curious will be to see what she will learn.